Treasuring the blessings, one by one...

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Almost-Milestones

Joshua has adopted this garage-sale-find giraffe as his new favorite toy. It seems to be a source of inspiration to him...he's working real hard to learn how to roll over, usually in the effort to get a good grip on the giraffe to give it a good chomp on the head.
Note Ellie using the opportunity of me being distracted by Josh's almost-roll to call some foreign country.
Got it!
Ellie teaching Josh how to call long-distance.
Josh is quite happy to be sitting as much as possible these days..though I think it will still be a couple months before he can do it on his own. He often tries to do sit ups while he's laying flat on his back. Before we know it he'll have abs of steel, like his Auntie Leila.
And in other news...I am officially calling Ellie POTTY TRAINED! I still need to remind her to go, but now instead of pooping in her panties (unless we're quicker than her and run her to the potty)...she tells us, "Ellie poopy in panties" with a big smile like it's a joke. And we say, "Gotta go to the potty?" And she RUNS there yelling all the way and we have success!! She has very few pee accidents. So now she only really needs diapers for nap and bedtime and the occasional long outing! I'm so thankful that this turned out to be a lot easier than I expected...we were eager to start saving money on diapers. Thanks Lord!

Monday, April 28, 2008

Watcha Readin'?

If you were to come into our master bedroom right now, and somehow found the grace to look past my unmade bed, the earplug on the floor...the used diaper tossed into the corner of the room in the middle of a recent night...and the pile of baby clothes waiting to be organized...and decided to examine the books on my night table, you'd probably be able to pretty much guess where I'm at in life right now. This is what you would find (I find it impossible to read one book at a time):

1. "Love is a Decision" by Gary Smalley...learning to love unconditionally.
2. "It's Not About Me" by Max Lucado...self-explanatory!
3. "The Bathtub is Overflowing but I feel Drained: How to Defeat Mommy Stress." By Lysa Terkeurst...again, no explanation needed!
4. "Have a New Kid by Friday" Dr. Kevin Leman ...such a good book! Every mom should have a copy! Teachers too!
5. "A Season of Grace" by Bette Nordberg. A novel - really easy, enjoyable read.
6. The Bible. Enough said.

There's me. How about you guys? What do the books on your night table say about you?

Friday, April 25, 2008

This already seems like a distant memory...

...even though it was just last week.True to form, Manitoba Spring Time fooled us into believing it was here to stay. I don't know why we are so gullible. This happens every year.
Today it is disgustingly cold and dreary outside and reminds me a lot of Vancouver in winter.
BUT there are fluffy little birds on my patio and the ice has melted off Ellie's sandbox so there's still hope. I'll keep you posted.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Another practical use for your ugly papasan chair:

Get daddy (or some other willing soul) to take you for a ride.
It didn't make it onto Joshua's "things that are fun" list (like belching and puking), but he'll learn to love it.

Warning: potty language is used in the following post!


This weekend we had a small victory in the war against diapering two children (as opposed to just one): Ellie had her fifth poop in the potty! There are probably several of you out there who understand just how excellent it feels to make this announcement. Peeing, no sweat. We have Ellie in panties most of the day now and she's had 4 accidents but most of the time she's pretty good about depositing the pee in the appropriate facility (who wouldn't want to pee in the potty for a tinkle treat?) Poop, however, now that's another issue altogether. At least 3 of those five stickers you see above were from Rob or myself grabbing Ellie and RUNNING lightning speed to the bathroom just in time for the turd to fall into the can. But hey. This Saturday she got fries and a date with Daddy. And now she wants more.
To be continued... :)

Friday, April 18, 2008

Strollin' in the Sunshine

One of the blessings of Rob being on evening shift for two weeks of the month is that we get him at home during the day on those weeks. Lately whenever he decides to take Ellie out to run errands with him I like to seize the opportunity to throw Joshua in the stroller and walk walk walk! This boy was born to ride (unlike his big sister whose patience with the stroller maxed out after 20 minutes). What a bonus for a mom who loves to walk!

That is one happy camper, folks.

Imagine

When I was a kid I had quite the imagination, as most kids do. I remember that I spent a lot of time pretending I was someone else - most often, an orphan. Psychiatrists out there would probably love me as their lab rat, figuring out just why I had this romantic misconception of the life of an orphan, but whatever...an orphan I was. As we'd drive home from wherever we'd been I'd pretend that I was driving up to my BRAND NEW home for the very first time. I had my VERY own room and brand new parents and WOW. Life would be grand! When I got dressed in the morning I might be Pollyanna (my all-time favorite orphan :) putting on my BRAND NEW dress which I never had the luxury of owning before. Or I was Heidi in the mountains, with no one but my grumpy old Grandpa to love me. All the way to school I'd walk in knee deep snowbanks, pretending I had to brave my way through the mountains just to get to a country school where I would have goat's milk and cheese and bread for lunch. (I don't think Heidi actually went to a country school, but that's irrelevant). So there's a little snapshot into the warped mind of Jacki. All this to say, Ellie's starting to remind me a little of myself (uh oh.) But I find it really amusing.
For instance.
Ellie will be practicing on the potty when she'll say, "Eyee's Eddie. Hi Mommy."
And at first I'm not really listening so I absentmindedly say, "Hi, Ellie."
She'll repeat herself. "Eyee's Eddie. Hi Mommy." And then I'll understand that Ellie is now EDDIE (a character from the Little People) and then it's my job to say, "Hi Eddie. Are you all done going potty, Eddie?"
Twenty seconds later (literally) Ellie will say, "Eyee's a pwincess. Hi mommy." To which I must respond, "Hi beautiful princess!"
Twenty seconds later (literally) Ellie will say, "Eyee's Tuck. Hi Mommy" After which she'll fall down and I have to say, "Careful, Tuck'...and on it goes.
The other day Ellie spent an entire trip to Superstore and back holding an imaginary kangaroo in the palm of her hand.
Life with an imagination....not boring for a second!

Ellie doing her best 'silly face', which always ends up looking rather serious.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Chubby Monkey



Well I brought Joshua to get weighed yesterday and my eyes weren't all that surprised at the numbers...my ARMS have been feeling those numbers now for weeks. 15 pounds!! What a whopper! Elianna was 15 pounds when she was 7 months (as opposed to 3 1/2). All I can say is 1. The formula must be treating him well and 2. This boy had better be an early walker!

Monday, April 14, 2008

Nothing new at the Balfour home...just hanging out.

Both children looking very reflective before church yesterday.
I think Josh touched her with his foot.
I shall re-name my children 'Spit-Gob-On-Chin' and 'Searching-for-Treasure'.
He touched her with his foot again.
Ellie acting her usual maniacal self.
She insisted on them both laying on her very precious 'draky' (blanky) which is turning into a dull shade of gray from overuse. Today, wearing just a diaper and a dress-up hat, Ellie threw the blanky around her shoulders like a scarf, gave me a big grin and declared, "It's a bootiful day, Mommy!" I have no clue where she got that idea. The wind is so strong it could knock a person over. Ah well.

Friday, April 11, 2008

Spring has Sprung! (I hope...)

This week we have finally had a real turn in the weather and now all that's left of the Manitoba snow are a few small dirty mounds. The sun is shining. I love it. Spring is 100% my favorite season! Yesterday Ellie's eyes lit up when I opened the patio door for the first time (I don't think she remembered that opening the patio door was an option) and let her play on the deck. Yeah, there's pretty much nothing to play with on the deck right now, but that doesn't stop a two year old from having fun.

Lovin' the fresh air!
Playing with the screen door.
I threw a blanket down and told Ellie she was having a picnic.
"MMMM! That's nummy!"
Chillaxin' with her current favorite: a book on how to make puppets.

Joshua stayed in his swing with a warm sweater on and watched Ellie play:
"Where'd Ellie go?"
"OUTSIDE?!? I didn't know you could go out there!"

Yes, Joshy, there's lots of fun to be had! Bring on the sunshine!

Wednesday, April 09, 2008

The newest Balfour!

No, I'm not pregnant. Our newest addition is sweet, blissfully quiet, and wonderfully low-maintenance. He's a fish.
Meet Purple Balfour:That's right, folks - we are pet owners!!
A friend of mine works at the pet store and she decided to surprise Ellie with a fish. Ellie was totally pumped! She saw him in there and exclaimed, "It's a FISHY! He's CUUUUUTE!" She named him Purple and we've put him in the bathroom so that 1. She can't stick her gooey little hands in the bowl and accidentally kill him when we're not looking and 2. It keeps potty time exciting. I can get Purple to say anything I want like, "Oh, Purple says he really wants to see a poop today," or "Purple wants you to stay on the potty for just another minute so he doesn't get lonely." (Is that called manipulation? :) Anyhow, it's kind of fun. This is Ellie's first real 'responsibility'. She has to feed Purple before she gets breakfast...which she loves doing, of course. We're not really pet people so it'll be interesting to see how long we can keep this little guy alive. We'll give it our best shot. Welcome to the family, Purple!

Monday, April 07, 2008

Tired...

Today's a particularly tired sort of day. Elianna, who's been a world-class sleeper for ages now has suddenly begun resisting her naps as well as having some bizarre night wake-ups. Last night, for instance, she went to bed without a peep, then suddenly woke up at 11pm and was up until 12. She was crying and yelling if she was in her crib, happy if she was rocking on my lap, and talking a blue-streak when I attempted to bring her to bed with me (and wacking me in the face with her blanky :). Finally we decided to see if she really did need 'a dwink of juice' and after she chugged a whole sippy cup of water she fell fast asleep. I'm assuming this sleep stuff goes with the toddler territory and am also assuming it will eventually pass. But add that to Joshua's usual 4am feed and well, today is a particularly tired sort of day. But it could be much worse. So to cheer myself up, I'm posting some positivity. Here's a few of my latest favorite sibling moments. I'm savoring every one of these moments while the love relationship lasts!"Help, Ma, I can't breathe!"
I hadn't quite gotten to giving Joshua his bottle when Ellie swooped in and decided to do it herself. She kept pulling it out of his mouth but he didn't care in the least...he was far too thrilled with the fact that his sister was feeding him!
Never too busy to say "Cheese!"
My all-time favorite. Josh is in his glory.

Saturday, April 05, 2008

A "bum change".


Apparently Ellie's doll "Regan" has some diaper rash issues. I was wondering why Ellie had been so quiet!

Friday, April 04, 2008

3 Months


Joshua turned 3 months this week! My head is spinning, it went so fast. Part of me is a bit grieved that I already remember very little of these months (it's allll a blur! Thank Jesus for photographs), part of me is a bit relieved that the 'worst' (most chaotic time) is over. The usual motherhood ambiguity. Joshua is thriving on formula. He has rolls I never thought possible on the offspring of a Balfour! He loves to gurgle, smile, and stare cross-eyed at his hands for long periods of time. He is a dream baby to take care of...unless you cross him. If his bottle is late or he's got a stuck burp or you don't get him in bed PRONTO when he's tired - WATCH OUT! He's got a temper! Toddler-hood could get interesting! Joshua - we love you to bits and can't imagine life without you!!